All deserves to be content but for most citizens happiness remains elusive. One explanation for this is because people continue to derive their joy from major stuff, including a career advancement or a sizzling new relationship. I focus on the precious words Mother Teresa quoted "Be faithful in small things for the power resides in them" Being comfortable and satisfied with the small pleasures of life allows one to calm down and take the time to appreciate them. The wise words of Mother Theresa speak too much to our quickly paving country. As grown-up adults we seem to quickly overlook how even one slight shift or moment will cause a new environment and life.
Take the time to enjoy a meal with your partner or breathe in the new morning air, pleasant with the kids playing a basic board game will make the house ring with laughter, love that heated embrace, that cuddly blanket and that powerful gadget, and you'll consider your life one marked by pleasure, even without knowing it, one little gesture will contribute to a happy day, everlasting happiness.
I decided to stop and share, our behaviors about the little stuff rely on happiness. Life consists of little things, and loving them is expected to make for a more enjoyable existence with all their value.
I have a friend who still struggles with me just over minor issues, I respond to her for even less, it's still been a poor ending and we stop from communicating for a few days until we continue talking for no choice. There was this communication capacity that I gained during my coaching lessons, recently I was having a talk with a friend again as we normally argued, so I began to criticize her so never tried to listen. My mood shifted with her after a few hours and I slowed down, starting listening, still not knowing, probably not even willing to speak to her, I found after a few weeks that our relationship began to develop better and I also noticed the battles, disagreements fell down and the discussion became friendly with a positive ending much of the time.
I momentarily understood as I reflected it's a little thing I did to stay silent while she was thinking. That made her feel nice, we began chatting rather than arguing, the strength of silence and listening is incredibly valuable just in a basic discussion, how crucial it is while you are a teacher, only listening will do miracles, an successful listening would definitely carry the teacher beyond that, though it was not an easy task it is always achievable by constant practice and planning. When a mentor it's crucial to remember that not everybody with a dilemma wants you to fix it, they just need someone to relate to, someone they can feel comfortable, someone who co-creates the thoughts.
Take the time to enjoy a meal with your partner or breathe in the new morning air, pleasant with the kids playing a basic board game will make the house ring with laughter, love that heated embrace, that cuddly blanket and that powerful gadget, and you'll consider your life one marked by pleasure, even without knowing it, one little gesture will contribute to a happy day, everlasting happiness.
I decided to stop and share, our behaviors about the little stuff rely on happiness. Life consists of little things, and loving them is expected to make for a more enjoyable existence with all their value.
I have a friend who still struggles with me just over minor issues, I respond to her for even less, it's still been a poor ending and we stop from communicating for a few days until we continue talking for no choice. There was this communication capacity that I gained during my coaching lessons, recently I was having a talk with a friend again as we normally argued, so I began to criticize her so never tried to listen. My mood shifted with her after a few hours and I slowed down, starting listening, still not knowing, probably not even willing to speak to her, I found after a few weeks that our relationship began to develop better and I also noticed the battles, disagreements fell down and the discussion became friendly with a positive ending much of the time.
I momentarily understood as I reflected it's a little thing I did to stay silent while she was thinking. That made her feel nice, we began chatting rather than arguing, the strength of silence and listening is incredibly valuable just in a basic discussion, how crucial it is while you are a teacher, only listening will do miracles, an successful listening would definitely carry the teacher beyond that, though it was not an easy task it is always achievable by constant practice and planning. When a mentor it's crucial to remember that not everybody with a dilemma wants you to fix it, they just need someone to relate to, someone they can feel comfortable, someone who co-creates the thoughts.
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